How to make home evenings with your loved one more interesting

Many couples who have not yet been able to live together simply dream of spending every evening next to each other, going to bed together under the same blanket, saying good wishes before going to bed, and in the morning again together and at the same time waking up, showering each other with tender kisses. But when the cherished dream nevertheless finds its real embodiment, all the romance and unusualness of interpersonal communication slowly begins to "evaporate". And after three months of living together, you realize that your relationship is beginning to undergo profound changes.

It is as if an avalanche of monotony has covered you. Romantic intrigues and a special warmth combined with sensual tenderness have irrevocably gone from the relationship. The time spent together in the evenings can no longer bring stormy delight, as it was quite recently. Many couples in this case come to a fair idea. They guess that perhaps the whole thing lies in the absence of common interests or hobbies. Having established your own life, it's time to think about ways to spend your leisure time. It is the lack of common interests that inevitably leaves a negative imprint on the relationship in a couple and love.

People who began to live together need to think about a joint way of spending their free time constantly. But one should not despair. There are many ways to spend quiet family evenings with each other. Firstly, humanity did not come up with a TV for nothing. At first glance, home screening can seem very commonplace or pretty boring. Many therefore prefer to go to the cinema.

However, it's all about the idea itself. If you correctly present such entertainment, then it can be of genuine interest. Try to find a movie that will truly interest both of you. At the same time, an atmosphere of romance can be introduced into the room of your home. Turn off the lights and light candles instead, which give off a sensual scent when burned. This will create a romantic mood for both of you just before the movie starts. Compared to going to the cinema, you have many different advantages.

The second way of spending time together can be called somewhat original. It lies in the fact that you have to listen to the silence. Throughout the day, a person is literally immersed in a wide variety of sounds. Outside the window, the noise of passing vehicles is heard, the phone constantly emits its sound signals, in a public place we hear the voices of people, the noise of household appliances, etc. Such sounds and manifestations of noise do not seem to know their limits. Therefore, the feeling is created as if life passes in constant fuss and rapid movement. And this is repeated daily.

Inside every person subconsciously sits a desire to stop the flow of life rhythm and take a break from the constant and boring noise. It is quite possible for people in a couple to make such a joint pause, which will consist in moments of silence intended exclusively for both of you. When you enter your home, drown out any sources of noise. Turn off all household appliances, light candles and, covered with a warm blanket, just enjoy the silence and hugs of each other. After all, it is the embrace of a loving person that makes us be in bliss.

Just listen to the silence and give each other your warmth. The rest of the world will definitely wait for you. You can diversify your family evenings by adding a bit of oriental mood to them. This is very easy to do. For dinner, you can cook a dish such as pilaf.You can also buy a variety of sweets typical for the countries of the East. They can be easily found today in almost any of the stores. Remove chiffon scarves or long scarves from the closet.

You can also decorate the room with soft fabrics in warm colors. It will be just great if you have a hookah in your household. If it is not there, then ask your friends or acquaintances for a while. Decorate your living space with plenty of soft and comfortable pillows. Scatter them on the floor too. After all, this is how you will have to spend your dinner.

Even if you were not an ardent fan of all kinds of lotteries or other types of gambling before, it is never too late to start. Try, for example, to make your home look like a real casino. The game in the well-known "monopoly" or the usual cards is quite suitable for these purposes. If you have never played poker before, then this is just the right moment. However, try to find something that will be very interesting for both of you. Also, do not forget to stock up on various drinks and snacks in advance. They will be a great addition to your evening together.

You can create a special piquancy in the game by providing for some interesting bets. As your desires, you may want to turn to do the dishes or clean the house. Use whatever desires your imagination dictates to you. If you make it a rule to plan your family evenings in advance this way, boredom and monotony will practically disappear from your life. Moreover, those who have begun to implement such ideas admit that with each new evening, they madly want to try something new and more interesting, and ideas come to mind by themselves. So that it is even difficult to stop. Everyone can make their life more interesting. The main thing is to show a little initiative and bring some creativity into this process.

Alexey Viktorovich